As a slave, are you physically and mentally ready to serve your Mistress? Personal development is of course an ongoing activity. You keep a log for the best result.

Hieronder zie je 13 regels en de eerste 3 houdingen om je alvast een indruk te geven hoe elke slaaf, zonder uitzondering, zich dient te gedragen tijdens een ontmoeting met Ons. Je zult zien dat het in je voordeel is als We merken dat je jezelf al enigszins hebt voorbereid. Bij deze regels horen ook nog houdingen en andere fysieke en mentale uitdagingen. Hier is echter wel ruimte voor de kaders van je eigen persoonlijkheid. Jouw geluk is namelijk dat Wij Ons snel vervelen. Hierdoor zijn We niet gebaat met maar één type slaaf. Hoe saai is het om alleen maar sissy’s te trainen, pijn toe te brengen of te vernederen. Juist de verschillen tussen de diverse slaven maken het leuk voor ons. Wat voor de ene een beloning is, is voor de ander een straf. Hier zit juist weer Onze uitdaging. Je training is dus wel iets wat bij je past. Niet een standaard die op iedereen hetzelfde wordt toegepast.

Rule 1: you are on time and you are well-groomed
Rule 2: you greet Us in a humble manner.
An overly casual tone and attitude are prohibited under all circumstances.
Rule 3: Without Our permission, you will not look Us in the eye.
Rule 4: you will never touch Us!
Unless a specific order is given, which applies only to the Dominant issuing the order and only for that particular moment (!).
Rule 5: you must always ensure that you are in a position where you look up at Us.
Rule 6: If you accompany Us in public, discrete etiquette rules apply.
For example, holding doors, carrying bags, and pulling out chairs. you never walk beside Us, but always one step behind Us.
Rule 7: you exist for the convenience and amusement of your Mistress.
Her time and attention require your full commitment and submission.
Rule 8: Without Our permission, you will not speak.
If it seems that We do not recognise your limit, you should say "mercy." We will stop immediately and ask you to explain.
Rule 9: Your punishment is not a reward.
Any attempt to beg or manipulate Us to get what YOU want will have the opposite effect.
Rule 10: Your Mistress is not your girlfriend, so you do not ask for time or attention from Her outside of sessions.
Unless She commands otherwise. Do not feel or act more important than others. It is your privilege to serve your Mistress when it pleases Her.
Rule 11: Respect Our carefully established rates and rules.
The dishonouring of Our rates and rules through requests for exceptions or preferential treatment will be punished with merciless silence.
Rul 12: Practice sharp self-reflection (without self-hatred).
Radical honesty. The ability to face your own failures without escaping into victimhood. We determine your worth, and that is sometimes a painful mirror. But a man who despises himself is useless. Self-hatred is not a virtue. It's a weakness We don't tolerate.
Rule 13: You always have the freedom to end your chosen submission to Vestique Femdom and to go your own way.