Training

ARE YOU READY FOR A NEW ERA?

Become an ultimate Vestique vestarius

a Vestique trained man who understands the value of the Woman
and is willing to dedicate his life to supporting
Women as Goddesses in the fullest sense of the word.

VESTIQUE TRAINING

COMMITMENT

As a slave, are you physically and mentally ready to serve your Mistress? Personal development is of course an ongoing activity. You keep a log for the best result.

Would you like to be trained as a Vestique Domina? Contact us through our contact page

Below you will find 13 rules and the first 3 positions to give you an impression of how every sub, without exception, is expected to behave during an encounter with Us. you will see that it works in your favor if We notice you’ve already made some effort to prepare yourself. These rules are accompanied by postures and other physical and mental challenges. However, there is room here for the framework of your own personality. your luck is that We get bored quickly. That means We are not served by just one type of sub. How dull would it be to only train sissies, inflict pain, or humiliate? It is precisely the differences between the various slaves that make it enjoyable for Us. What is a reward for one, is a punishment for another. That’s exactly where Our challenge lies. So your training will be something that suits you—not a standard approach applied to everyone in the same way.

THE 13 RULES

Updated 28 mei 2025

Rule 1: you are on time and you are well-groomed
Rule 2: you greet Us in a humble manner.
An overly casual tone and attitude are prohibited under all circumstances.
Rule 3: Without Our permission, you will not look Us in the eye.
Rule 4: you will never touch Us!
Unless a specific order is given, which applies only to the Dominant issuing the order and only for that particular moment (!).
Rule 5: you must always ensure that you are in a position where you look up at Us.
Rule 6: If you accompany Us in public, discrete etiquette rules apply.
For example, holding doors, carrying bags, and pulling out chairs. you never walk beside Us, but always one step behind Us.
Rule 7: you exist for the convenience and amusement of your Mistress.
Her time and attention require your full commitment and submission.
Rule 8: Without Our permission, you will not speak.
If it seems that We do not recognise your limit, you should say "mercy." We will stop immediately and ask you to explain.
Rule 9: Your punishment is not a reward.
Any attempt to beg or manipulate Us to get what YOU want will have the opposite effect.
Rule 10: Your Mistress is not your girlfriend, so you do not ask for time or attention from Her outside of sessions.
Unless She commands otherwise. Do not feel or act more important than others. It is your privilege to serve your Mistress when it pleases Her.
Rule 11: Respect Our carefully established rates and rules.
The dishonouring of Our rates and rules through requests for exceptions or preferential treatment will be punished with merciless silence.
Rul 12: Practice sharp self-reflection (without self-hatred).
Radical honesty. The ability to face your own failures without escaping into victimhood. We determine your worth, and that is sometimes a painful mirror. But a man who despises himself is useless. Self-hatred is not a virtue. It's a weakness We don't tolerate.
Rule 13: You always have the freedom to end your chosen submission to Vestique Femdom and to go your own way.

HOUDINGEN

Updated 23 mei 2025

Eerbied

Reverence

This position is your default when you enter Our presence or when We enter yours. During greetings and farewells, you place your forehead on Our feet as soon as (and for as long as) We extend them to you. You also assume this position whenever you have a request to make of Us.

Halsband

Collar

When putting on or taking off your collar, you move your head along to make it easier for Us.

Attention

This is the general resting position. Your head is humbly slightly bowed, but not so much that you cannot attentively respond to Our wishes.

TWO DOMINA’S TEAMING UP

Vestique

Ultimate Training Day

donderdag 12 maart 2026

the Vestique commitment

training for slaves

Heb je de intro opleiding afgerond? Dan geven Wij je waarschijnlijk toestemming om ook deel te nemen aan de Vestique commitment. Bij de Vestique  commitment ben je al op de hoogte van de basisregels, etiquette en gedrag van Vestique. Vanaf hier zullen Wij je onderdanigheid en dienstbaarheid meer en zwaarder testen. Wij zullen het uiterste van je vragen om een Vestique vestarius te kunnen worden.

During the commitment you have a live session twice a month.

There is no set duration for this commitment; after all, you are never done learning to worship Us.

Tijdens de commitment hebben Wij verschillende meetmomenten. Zijn Wij tevreden over de vooruitgang? Dan krijg je van Ons een Vestique inwijding. Na deze inwijding ben je een echte Vestique vestarius en dien je als voorbeeld voor anderen. Uiteraard kunnen Wij je dan alsnog genoeg leren en hebben Wij ook nog meerdere inwijdingen voor je klaar liggen.

Ultimate Training Day

Donderdag 12 maart 2026

the Vestique commitment

training for slaves

Have you completed the intro training? Then We will probably give you permission to also participate in the Vestique commitment. Starting the Vestique commitment you are already aware of the basic rules, etiquette and behavior of Vestique. From here on We will test your submission and service more and more severely. We will ask the utmost of you to become a Vestique slave.

During the commitment you have a live session twice a month.

There is no set duration for this commitment; after all, you are never done learning to worship Us.

We have various test moments during the commitment. Are We satisfied with the progress? Then you will receive a Vestique initiation from Us. After this initiation you are a real Vestique slave and you serve as an example for others. Of course We can still teach you plenty and We also have more initiations ready for you.

Vestique session

to be booked separately

Not sure yet if you are ultimate enough to become a true Vestique sub? That commitment is not for everyone. Then book one or more separate sessions. The session will be Vestique style, so you can get a taste of our style. Also, Our own etiquette and rules of conduct will apply during the session.

Not sure yet?

Book a single session

Not sure yet if you are ultimate enough to become a true Vestique sub? That commitment is not for everyone. Then book one or more separate sessions. The session will be Vestique style, so you can get a taste of our style. Also, Our own etiquette and rules of conduct will apply during the session.