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Mistress Vesta
About twenty years ago I discovered that an ever-present feeling within me turned out to be simply my sexual orientation. The phenomenon of BDSM with infinite variations was completely unknown to me. It wasn't part of the information available, like most people lol.
When I finally discovered that a kink lifestyle existed, it was love at first sight. Rattling chains, the smell of leather, screaming men - I knew immediately that this would be a part of my life forever.
I still remember the first man who sat on his knees in front of me. He asked me: "What do you want, Mistress?". Little did I realize how this moment would change my life. I had never thought about the answer to that question because no one had ever asked me that question. The meaning this world has for me is almost impossible to express in words.
It took me some time to accept the slavish surrender with all my heart. Although I always felt that traditional male-female relationships limited my freedom and identity, it had crept into my subconscious. Now that I feel free, I experience the effect a man can have by making himself available without expectations. It creates freedom and awakens sexual energy. A conscious awareness of one's own strength and acting without restraint as it comes. This can only arise when the learned pressure to please and feed the fragile male ego has disappeared.
In essence, men like uninhibited women who are confident and free. This explains why some are willing to trade their fears of not being enough of a man for a different version of themselves. To let the oppressive effect that their attitude can have, due to a “masculine” image based on fear and insecurity, be trained out.
Seeing the commitment and dedication during training based on this inner wish is where I get my energy.
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